Why your cat always wants to be the centre of your world

Does your cat constantly sit on your stuff? Does your best feline friend seem determined to get in the way of whatever task you’re trying to do? And have you ever wondered why?
Featured image for Why your cat always wants to be the centre of your world
25th July 2024

Whether it’s on top of your laptop as you’re about to join an online meeting, the magazine you’ve just set aside to read with your coffee, the pile of laundry you’re about to load into the washing machine, or the suitcase you’ve just started to pack, does your cat jump aboard and give you that ‘what?’ look?

According to Cats Protection, there are various reasons why felines like to sit on their human’s stuff – from finding warmth, comfort and safety, to wanting to be close to anything that smells of you – as well as ensuring that they have your unbridled attention.


I like to be warm

A cat’s body temperature is a couple of degrees higher than us (38-39°C, compared to a human average of 37°C), which is why they seek out the sunniest or cosiest spots to hang out.

Cats Protection explains: “Laptops and other electrical appliances, radiators and other heat sources such as underfloor heating, sunlit spots, your lap and places you’ve just been sitting are all ideal as they radiate heat to keep their body temperature warm.”

Writing on Bustle, cat watcher Megan Grant says that cats are: “known to find warm places to help keep the temperature up. Your warm laptop or a book that became warmer from being held in your hands? It's the purrfect spot to cozy up.”

Cat-owning writer Jessica Sullivan adds: “This explains why my laptop is a popular sitting spot. I thought (my cat) Golden was trying to annoy me by getting her fur to stick to my screen. It's really because cats like to maintain their internal body temperature, and sitting somewhere warm makes it easy to stay toasty.”


I like to swap scents

While we humans interpret our world mainly by sight, a cat’s world is defined by scent. By creating unique scent profiles around their environment, a cat can feel safe and secure.

Cats Protection says: “They rub the scent glands found on their face, body and paws onto objects to transfer their scent and mark the area as safe. Therefore, if they’ve previously transferred their scent onto an object, they might be attracted to sit on it as they know it’s safe. Similarly, if they are bonded with you and know you can be trusted, they might associate your scent with safety and find comfort in sitting on your lap or on objects that smell like you, such as your unwashed laundry.”

Pet Helpful, an online resource created by animal lovers, enthusiasts, and pet professionals, comments: “Our cats are tied to our scents and love things that smell like us, as well. And, with over 200 million scent receptors, their sense of smell is 40 times stronger than ours! So, it makes sense that they would want to be on or near something that was just in our hands. Even more, when a cat recognises his or her own scent on an object from before, maybe a book you were reading a few days ago and just set down again after a few more chapters, he or she will keep reapplying their own scent to mark the object as safe. The same goes for your cell phone, laptop, or anything else you might use regularly.”

Megan Grant adds: “If you've noticed that your cat only likes to sit on the book you were just reading – and not any of the others – yes, that's totally a thing. Kitty doesn't have picky taste in books; it's that he wants the one you were just handling. In fact, one cat owner placed "dummy books" on her bed as an experiment, but her cat only wanted the one she was just reading.”


I like to make things mine

Notoriously inquisitive, cats will check out anything new that appears in their environment to determine what it is and ensure it’s safe, before taking ownership.

Cats Protection says: “Cats are curious creatures, so when a new object arrives in their home, such as a carrier bag, cardboard box, new piece of furniture or even a person, they may want to investigate it. If their initial inspection identifies the object as harmless, they might decide to sit on it to transfer their scent and mark it as safe.”

Megan Grant observes: “For the species, marking their territory with their scent has been a way of setting boundaries, both for themselves and for other felines. When it smells its own scent on something – maybe your computer? – the cat knows it's safe; additionally, it will continue reapplying the scent as it diminishes over time to keep that safeness around.”

“Another truth about our feline friends is that they are naturally territorial,” adds Pet Helpful. “They will claim their territory by rubbing themselves on an object transferring their pheromones (which come from glands in their faces and feet) onto whatever it was that you were just holding or using. This gives the object some of the cat’s own unique scent, marking it as yours (but really, theirs).”


I like to be the focus of your attention

If your cat gives you the impression that they’re getting in the way of whatever task you’re undertaking on purpose, you’re probably right on the money.

Megan Grant notes: “Your pal knows when you're giving your attention to something else; and, well, they want the attention on them. This is yet another reason cats sit on stuff you frequently use. Wherever your focus and gaze is, that's where they want to be.”

Pet Helpful adds: “Cats also want to be the centre of our attention and can tell when they are not. They have amazing senses and can tell where our focus is at a given moment. So, by laying on that object or standing right in front of the computer screen, he or she hopes to become the new centre of attention.”

And it’s a technique that canny cats know works really well. Cats Protection says: “If your cat likes fuss and strokes, they may choose to sit somewhere that will increase their chances of getting your attention. The laptop you’re using, paper you’re reading, chair you’re sitting on, or your lap are prime positions for getting in your way, so you give them a chin rub.”

It seems that cats know what they want and exactly how to get it. Megan Grant concludes: “Next time your cat sits on the exact thing you need, and you start to get aggravated, remember that it's doing it for a reason!” So that’s another cat mystery, solved!


EVERY CAT DESERVES A DELICIOUS, NUTRITIOUS DINNER. At Burgess, all our cat food is made using premium ingredients, locally sourced wherever possible to support British farmers, to ensure excellent quality and superior taste to help keep your cat happy and healthy – from kitten, to adult and mature and our award-winning variety for neutered cats.

Adapting your cat’s diet throughout their life – what you choose to feed your cat can make all the difference >>

Our cat diet and nutrition guide is here to help you create a meal plan that's tailored especially for your feline friend

HOW OFTEN SHOULD YOU FEED YOUR CAT? Find out why little and often suits most cats – and the reason why play should be part of your feeding routine…

Is your cat a Burgess cat? Join the Burgess Pet Club for exclusive offers and rewards.

GOT A CAT QUESTION? Whatever your feline related query, we’ve got some fascinating answers for you >>


If you found this interesting, you may also like:

THE CAT COMMUNICATION GUIDE From purrs to scent signals, body postures and blinking, yowls to growls – cats communicate in a variety of ways. They’ve even developed a way of communicating just with humans – cats don’t bother to meow to other cats, just us! Solve the mysteries of cat communication with our guide.

WHY DO CATS LIKE TO SQUEEZE THEMSELVES INTO SMALL SPACES? “If I fits, I sits,” has become a catchphrase and search term for cat fans entranced by felines who have an uncanny ability to squeeze themselves into unfeasibly small spaces. But why do they do it?

WHY CATS LIKE THE HIGH LIFE Is your cat a climber? Does your favourite feline always find a way to scale wardrobes, bookcases and even your curtains? Have you ever wondered why cats like to perch in high places?

GIVE YOUR FUSSY FELINE A CHOICE If you have a feline with discerning taste who can be a little on the fussy side when it comes to dinner time, perhaps it’s time to change things up a little...

CAT BREEDS – TAKE A CLOSER LOOK AT SOME OF THE UK’S MOST POPULAR TYPES OF CAT Siamese or Bengal? Norwegian Forest or Maine Coon? Ragdoll or Russian Blue? Which breed of cat do you find most captivating? We count down 10 cat breeds that are riding high in the popularity charts, plus one favourite feline that’s not actually a breed at all …

PLAY BEHAVIOUR OF CATS SURPRISES SCIENTISTS While there are lots of things that cats do which cause scientists plenty of head-scratching moments, new research into the way cats play has resulted in some rather baffled boffins...

STRANGER DANGER! Does your cat do a disappearing act when visitors appear? Unfamiliar humans entering their territory can send them running for cover. So why is this the case?

ARE YOU AND YOUR CAT MORE ALIKE THAN YOU THINK? If you have a grumpy Tabby cat, a super friendly Ragdoll cat, or fiendishly feisty Bengal cat, could this actually say more about you than your pet?

HOW TO TELL IF YOUR CAT REALLY LOVES YOU While you may adore your captivating cat, how does your enigmatic feline companion feel about you?

BEST FELINE FRIENDS FOREVER? For cats, their territory (your home and the surrounding environs) is everything and the arrival of a new feline will be viewed with the utmost suspicion. While humans may think their solo feline will enjoy the company of playmate, your cat is likely to have other ideas. 

GIRLS V BOYS – FELINE MYTHS AND MISCONCEPTIONS Do male and female cats act differently because of their gender? Are generalisations about laid back, lap-loving boys and aloof, independent girls simply myths – or is there any truth to them?

CAN YOU TRAIN A CAT? Felines excel at training their human guardians to give them food, attention and a cosy lap to curl up on. But is it possible for us to train them?

DOES YOUR CAT KNOW THEIR NAME? Whatever name we choose to bestow upon our beloved pet cats, does it make any difference to them? Do they actually understand that they’re called Alfie or Bella or even Archibald von Snugglemuffin?

THE HOMING INSTINCT – CAN CATS REALLY FIND THEIR WAY HOME? Top tip – it’s much easier if they’re microchipped! Plus, what a change in the law will mean for every cat owner…

Featured products

Product image for Adult Cat Bundle

Adult Cat Bundle

from £25.18 or subscribe and save 5%
Product image for Adult Cat Rich in Salmon

Adult Cat Rich in Salmon

from £8.99£37.00 or subscribe and save 15%
Product image for Mature Cat with Turkey & Cranberry

Mature Cat with Turkey & Cranberry

from £8.99 or subscribe and save 15%

Blog categories

Dogs

Dogs

Cats

Cats

Rabbits

Rabbits

Guinea pigs

Guinea pigs

Small animals

Small animals